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Etiquette and Manners :

Living a life 24/7 according to certain rules and regulations define a well defined life. Interaction with society, eating, sleeping, relationship if each and every action in day follow certain guidelines we say life to be full of etiquette and manners.

How it leads one to a happy life:

Research and observation of people around you, will clarify the fact that those "who followed a well defined guideline for their life are always successful one". Human rely on their desires while intellectuals and happier ones follow rules and regulations. There are many people who are fond of certain personalities, they try to adopt their way.

Blessing for humanity: 

Human beings are blessed by the fact that they are guided continuously throughout history by prophets and messengers, each era of history may examine prophets and messengers that taught people a good life. Muhammad (Peace Be Upon Him), is last messenger of Allah who guided people of Mecca towards a noble life. Historians mark his personality to be at top while mentioning "Great personalities of world". Let us see what noble way the Prophet Muhammad taught to people and how we can fetch happiness from them.Here we will quote one example of his noble behavior.
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How he treated his wife: 


Source: safiasimon.wordpress.com
Prophet Muhammad (PBUH), knew her wives feeling, he understood psychology & nature of her wives. He has a Complaining to & Consulting approach towards them, he frequently demonstrate his love & loyalty to them.


 I am in my love and loyalty to you just like Abi Zara’ and Um Zara” Aisha replied: You are dearer to me more than my father and mother, you are even more loyal and loving than Abi Zara’ to Um Zara”.
Narrated by: Aisha – Degree: Right – the narrator: Al-Bukhari – The Source: Al-Jame’ Al-Sahih – Page or number: 5189

Aisha – May Allah be pleased with her – said: When I drink water from the pot and give the pot to the Prophet – Peace be upon him – he drinks from the same place which touched my mouth, moreover, I was eating from the piece of meat and giving the same to the Prophet – Peace be upon him – and the Prophet puts his mouth in the same place of mine.
Narrated by: Aisha – Degree: Right – the narrator: Muslim – The Source: Al-Musnad Al-Sahih – Page or number: 300

He use to calm them down in panic, He use to praise & thank them.He said
The faithful husband should not hate his faithful wife, because if he hates certain manner in her character, then he should not forget the other good manners in her character”.
Narrated by: Abu Huraira – Degree: Right – the narrator: Muslim – The Source: Al-Musnad Al-Sahih – Page or number: 1469

“The Prophet – Peace be upon him – has not ever beaten any woman, any servant or anything in his hand other than fighting in the way of Allah The Almighty. 

Refrences:[https://www.facebook.com/notes/my-beauty-is-for-my-husband-to-see-not-the-world/how-prophet-muhammad-pbuh-treated-his-wives/481723468514411/]

Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) lead a very simple life, he was very hardworking his character and personality is brightened by his cleanliness and well groomed outlook. His every look interesting, his words full of wisdom from child to old person he treat every body with kindness. One can never be unsuccessful by following this  noble personality ethics and morals. So search google about any role of Muhammad (PBUH) have a successful and happy life, no matter how bad situation you are in, his teachings will hold you and strengthen you. 


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